Reviews life coaching
Diederik, 36
I knew that I didn't feel quite the way I wanted to, not quite "100%", I didn't know what exactly was behind that. Together with some questions from Bob, I set an objective and we started working on it. Through a number of conversations and “homework” I found out what was "wrong". What really bothered me. We then adjusted the objective and quickly took major steps forward.
Bob was very good at asking the hard questions that I wouldn't ask myself. I really liked how Bob always managed to find and use a model or exercise that helped me achieve my goal. That I could tell entire stories to Bob and that by asking a number of questions we quickly got to the core of how those stories matched my goal and the steps I was taking or that were still necessary.
Bob helped me enormously in achieving my goals, but also much more than just that. I am very grateful to Bob and so is my family!
Sofie, 30
In three months, Bob successfully coached me (online) to my personal goals. A safe atmosphere, the right (confrontational) questions, openness without judgement, clear and appropriate insights or methodologies and useful tools. Bob as a person made me feel comfortable and dared to share everything, from success to being vulnerable. I ended each session with a fresh dose of positive energy; the process with a lot of personal gain and practical applicability.
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Maartje, 49
I recommend a coaching program with Bob van der Mark to everyone. Bob coaches in a constructive, connecting and direct manner and has a good understanding of what is going on and what is needed. By sharing knowledge and continuing with practical exercises in an open and direct way, Bob offers every opportunity to learn and gain insight.
I have become more aware of what is important. The coaching process challenged me to take concrete steps and make better choices.
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Meghan, 26
I followed a change process with Bob for 5 months. He helped me redirect negative thoughts and become aware of my thoughts and actions. During the coaching, I found the models we used best to visualize how my head was structured and how I could consciously change this. This always resulted in action points to be discussed in the subsequent conversation.
At the start of the process I had a big goal in mind, something that I will always have to keep working on. However, I have certainly made great strides through Bob's coaching sessions!
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Maxime, 29
Bob is a very nice, good listening coach who mainly helps you to describe and achieve your goals. My journey was mainly dominated by a number of 'aha' moments, which helped me enormously and which I now consciously and unconsciously apply in my daily life. My goal has been achieved and I have reached the point where I recognize my behavior, can do something with it, but can also accept it if it does not work as it 'should'.
All in all, a successful process and thanks to Bob who listened to me in a calm manner, summarized and gave me many insights. I think Bob can help many people with his coaching skills.
Reviews work/team coaching
Erik, CRM & Marketing and Automation Specialist
Every year the company held an EES. An employee survey that shows how your staff is doing, what they think, etc. A point of attention emerged from the EES. Ultimately, this was discussed through a theme such as 'energy guzzlers and energy givers'. Bob was the one who guided this and I think he did a very good job. He is able to act as a discussion leader, he has good empathy, he is honest and dares to confront people. Afterwards there was good communication and he provided tools for the participants to continue with.
Jules, Creative and Content Manager
Energetic, enthusiastic and occasionally confrontational. This is what Bob's coaching sessions are like. Bob listens well and asks the right questions. He knows how to put his finger on the sore spot. This allowed us to avoid certain pitfalls so that cooperation within the team became even better. Bob is open, positively critical and very pleasant to work with.
Joyce, Teamlead Campaign Management
Bob is a nice, warm coach with an eye for the person behind the position. He creates an environment in which you feel free to say anything. Asks questions where necessary and gives you useful insights. I found my sessions with him at DPG Media pleasant and valuable. Can definitely recommend him!
David, Online Marketeer
Bob is a very nice colleague and very good coach. During my time at Scoupy, Bob held a number of coaching sessions that were very valuable. Bob is a good listener and an excellent connector. The sessions ultimately also led to better cooperation. I experienced the sessions and collaboration with Bob as very pleasant and educational, so I can certainly recommend Bob as a coach!
Leendert, Graphic Designer
Bob has held coaching sessions with the marketing and operations department. It has led to greater understanding of each other, resulting in much better cooperation. The sessions that Bob provided had a practical approach and never became abstract. Bob made sure everyone got the attention he or she needed. Colleagues with conflicting interests were able to discuss work with each other in a meaningful way, eliminating personal frustrations and making way for mutual appreciation. Bob can listen, direct and connect like no other, so everyone left the sessions with regained energy.
Reviews career coaching
Julia, 36
During the intake interview there was 'a good click' and the step-by-step plan and expectations for the career path were explained practically and clearly by Bob. Thanks to the practical (home) assignments, substantive reflection thereof and making progress step by step in the process, I look back on a very educational (and fun!) experience in which the preset goals were achieved.
Thanks to Bob's good listening ear, witty questions at the right time, his practical approach to the process, his help to see things in perspective and find answers for myself and thanks to his professionalism, he helped me to realize for myself what my values, my qualities and my conditions for a new job. This information gives me guidance and direction in finding a job that suits me.
Even though all sessions took place via Zoom, there was a personal atmosphere and the relationship was familiar and open from the start. Thank you Bob, for helping me find direction in this phase of my (work) life!
Mare, 43
As a Dutch hotel manager in a Spanish chain, I often encountered some problems and cultural differences, which is why I asked Bob as a coach. That turned out to be a good move. During five sessions spread over three months, we looked at different facets in a calm, familiar manner: my values, my talents, what talents others think I have, cultural differences, pitfalls and opportunities.
Actually, I wasn't doing that bad at work, but it was more that I had to adjust small things to make things a bit easier to see. I'm going like crazy again! I was able to clarify my objectives for myself and formulate a clear step-by-step plan for the coming years.
Highly recommended for everyone! If you're feeling stuck at work, give yourself some reflection, feedback and guidance before making any hasty decisions. Bob is careful, attentive, has a sense of humor, does not allow himself to be distracted, follows a clear process and provides honest feedback. It has been a very positive process with clear results. Thank you, Bob!
Annette, 49
During the Covid work-from-home period, it became clear to me that I was no longer really happy in my position. The question was, on the one hand, is it due to working from home? On the other hand, I sometimes wanted something different, but what? During a dinner with a friend, she talked about Bob and his online career coaching. It seemed like something to me.
Bob creates a very clear framework about what is included in the process, so that you know what you are getting into from the first intake interview. Interim assignments keep the momentum going. Bob is an amiable, warm man who quickly made me feel at home. The online aspect was not an obstacle. I was able to concentrate well, partly thanks to Bob's good questions and assignments.
In four sessions we discussed the values that are important to me in a position, we identified where my talents lie and we combined these elements to see what kind of job I would do well in. Thanks to this process and Bob's approach (clear, well-organized, stimulating, calm), I have gained a clear picture of companies and jobs that my profile fits well with.
The best thing is to give yourself the time to embark on such a journey. You do the thinking and coming up with solutions yourself. Bob always gives you the push to gain new insights.
Berend, 32
Right from the start, Bob paid a lot of attention to a familiar environment, in which privacy was clearly emphasized. This struck me as very professional. During the intake interview, it became clear what the expectations were on both sides. Bob was very clear about this and during the process it was completed exactly as outlined earlier.
The sessions gave me insight and structure into what I already knew, but didn't know I knew. This overview and this method will be useful to me for the rest of my life. If I have to characterize Bob as a coach, the words 'involved' & 'professional' come to mind.